The Bayfield BreezeIssue 808 Week 01 Vol 16
January 1, 2025
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THREE COMMUNITY GROUPS ADVOCATE FOR ALLOCATION OF SALE PROCEEDS
Late in 2024, the Municipality of Bluewater was approached by potential buyers for the Bayfield Lions Club’s Community Building at 6 Municipal Road in the village. The building has been leased to the Bayfield Lions Club from Bluewater for the past 24 years. (Photo by Dianne Brandon)
The Bayfield Lions Club, Bayfield Ratepayers’ Association (BRA), and Bayfield Area Food Bank (BAFB) are calling on concerned citizens to show their support at the Municipality of Bluewater council meeting on Jan. 13 with regards to the sale process for the Bayfield Lions Club’s Community Building.
According to Bayfield Lions Club President Ian Matthew, the municipality has not received any further expressions of interest for the Lions Club building and council is expected to approve a direct deal with a physician from Seaforth who plans to turn the building into a much-needed medical clinic.
In light of this, these three organizations are advocating for the allocation of the initial proceeds from the sale. Their proposal aims to use these funds to relocate the BAFB to a new facility, with any remaining balance reserved for future use within the village of Bayfield.
“We urge all residents to come out and support this important initiative,” said Don Schafheitlin, president of the BRA. “Your voice matters, and together we can ensure that the proceeds from the sale are used to benefit the entire community.”
Matthew added, “The Lions wholly support the addition of a medical practice in Bayfield. This is the highest and best use of the property as correctly decided by the Municipality. Our concern is for the Bayfield Area Food Bank and its continued support of families in need. The building was also widely used by the community, and we will assist all to meet their needs in the future. While we applaud the Council in their decision, we look to the Council for their support of the Bayfield community. The proceeds of the sale represent that opportunity for Council.”
Claire Trepanier, president of the BAFB, emphasized, “Access to medical care and food are critical, especially in rural areas with limited resources. Establishing a medical clinic is a great initiative that will improve health outcomes, while the Bayfield Area Food Bank addresses food insecurity and provides a welcoming, stable environment for those in need. Our growth from 66 clients in early 2024 to now over 100 demonstrates the positive impact of the privacy and comfort we offer. This welcoming environment plays a crucial role in encouraging those who may have been hesitant to seek assistance. A food bank in Bayfield is not just beneficial but essential, and our efforts are making a significant impact on the community.”
The Bayfield Lions Club’s Community Building has a rich history. Once the Bayfield Public School, it later served as the municipal office for the village before amalgamation. The building has been leased from the Municipality of Bluewater for the last 24 years and for 14 of those years served as Bayfield’s only public washroom in the downtown core.
Residents are encouraged to attend the council meeting on Jan. 13 at 6:30 p.m. in the Council Chamber at the Stanley Community Centre (Complex) to advocate for this initiative.
“Alternatively people should feel free to email Mayor Paul Klopp at pklopp@municipalityofbluewater.ca or Councilor Bill Whetstone at bwhetstone@municipalityofbluewater.ca,” said Matthew. “Together, we can work towards a positive outcome for the Bayfield community.”
FIRST GUIDED WINTER HIKE OF THE YEAR SET
Winter is a great time to get outside and take advantage of the local trails by hiking or snowshoeing. The Bayfield River Valley Trail Association (BRVTA) maintains seven recreational trails in and around Bayfield. They schedule over 20 guided hikes each year, giving residents of all ages and fitness levels the opportunity to enjoy the area’s natural beauty.
A few of the benefits of winter hiking are the beautiful scenery, the ability to spot animal tracks and there are no bugs!
The list and maps of the trails maintained by the BRVTA can be found here: Trail maps.
The first guided hike of 2025 will be a hike and lunch on Sunday, Jan. 19. A hike along the Mavis’ Trail (2.5 km) and/or Taylor Trail (1 km) will begin at 11 a.m. and will be followed by a chili lunch at the Stanley Community Centre (Complex) in Varna. At this event, the guided hike schedule for 2025 will be available. This hike is open to all, free of charge. Furry friends are welcome but please keep on a leash.
Upcoming guided hikes are published in the Bayfield Breeze, on the Municipality of Bluewater calendar, through monthly electronic newsletters and on the BRVTA website: www.bayfieldtrails.com.
“The Bayfield trails are managed entirely by volunteers and are paid for by community donations and annual memberships from people like you!” said Kelly Vader, chair of the BRVTA. “Your membership contribution allows our volunteers to keep the trails open, covering expenses such as materials and tools, programming, training, signage and insurance. As a member, you will receive invitations to participate in all organized hikes, as well as an opportunity to join the hiking buddy program. You will also receive invitations to the Columbia Sportswear discount store and the monthly electronic newsletter. Best of all, you’ll be helping us keep the trails open for everyone, every day of the year. See you on the trails!”
For a membership, please visit: BRVTA Membership and Donations.
The Stanley Community Centre (Complex) is located at 38595 Mill Road in Varna.
“AN EVENING WITH HARRY” TO SHOWCASE LIFE IN BAYFIELD IN THE EARLY DAYS
Harry Baker, wrote his memoirs in his early 80s and they were published in 1986. Through his book, Baker sheds some light on what life was like in Bayfield in days gone by. During “An Evening with Harry” on Feb. 8 some of his reflections will be brought to life through a series of readings. Tickets are available now. (Submitted photo)
February is often a time that people crave comfort and companionship and so the TSJ Hall Association is planning “An Evening with Harry” for Saturday, Feb. 8.
Reflections on Bayfield life in the 1900s that can be found in the memoir written by Harry Baker (1903-1997) will be showcased in a series of readings skillfully crafted by local author Judy Keightley. Starting at 6 p.m., prior to the readings, participants will dine on a hearty pasta dinner and a scrumptious dessert.
“This is meant to be a casual social evening and I would like to think that those who attend will have fun and enjoy the occasion,” said Keightley.
The evening will also act as a fundraiser for the TSJ Hall, attached to the rear of the Trinity St. James Chapel of Ease, the hall is now run independently by an association composed of community members and is available for use by local groups and organizations as well as for private family functions.
A limited number of tickets are available now for $25 each increasing to $30 as of Feb. 1st. To reserve a spot at An Evening with Harry please email Melody Falconer-Pounder at melody.pounder@gmail.com or call 519 525-3830.
The TSJ Hall and Trinity St James Chapel has a dedicated website and people are invited to visit it to learn more about other hosted events as well as rental opportunities at www.trinitystjamesbayfield.com.
The TSJ Hall and Trinity St.James Chapel are located at 10 Keith Crescent in the village.
CALICOS READY FOR FOREVER HOMES
Mavis (background) and Decuma (foreground). (Submitted photo)
Bayfield’s Forgotten Felines (BFF) have many cats and kittens looking for their forever homes such as the Adopt a BFF cats of the week – Mavis and Decuma.
These two adorable buddies likely aren’t related but are definitely the best of friends.
Mavis is a beautiful little Calico and as a true Calico she is the boss. This playful cat is just over a year old. At about four months she became ill and needed extensive treatment. Volunteers report that she is now in good health and ready to look for her forever home.
“Her Mama, Merle, is here at the shelter as well and she also has a buddy named Harper, who stayed by her side during her illness and helped her back to health, even though he was just a kitten himself,” said Deb Penhale, representing BFF.
Decuma came to BFF with a group of female cats which included three Mommas and several kittens.
“When they first came in we had no idea what babies belonged to what Mom so we kept them all together and everyone pitched in to help raise the kittens,” recalled Penhale.
Penhale added that now that the kittens have been raised, Decuma has blossomed into a lovely young cat, her playful side has really come out and she enjoys attention.
“You can often find her and Mavis curled up together,” said Penhale. “Mavis is more of a social butterfly and has many friends while Decuma prefers to keep her circle smaller – either of these girls would make a wonderful addition to any family.”
Please reach out to bayfieldsforgottenfelines@gmail.com to learn more about Mavis and Decuma.The adoption fee is $250. Adopted cats are vetted, shots are up-to-date and they are also spayed or neutered. Can’t adopt or foster at this time? Consider donating for medical care and food to the email address listed above via E-transfer or mail financial donations to P.O. Box 33, Bayfield, ON, N0M 1G0.
Want to see and learn more about the felines at the shelter? This can be done easily by visiting their website! Included on this website is lots of helpful information on how people can help feral kittens. The site, www.bayfieldsforgottenfelines.ca, features a searchable index of all the cats and kittens available for adoption. This includes pictures and descriptions of their personalities. Plus there is a new option for making donations by credit card. The website also includes online forms that automate the adoption and volunteer application processes as well as testimonials from previous adopters who found their purrfect matches at BFF.
CROQUET CLUB
John Easton (foreground) played Bill Rowat (background) in a steamy finish during one of the first games held in the Spring of 2024 on the courts at The Bayfield International Croquet Club. (Submitted photo)
In 2024, The Bayfield International Croquet Club (BICC) membership celebrated their 50th anniversary.
From a modest beginning at “Foamy Acres” the founding members Hugh Gregory, Lorne Cook, Ray Bauer, Joe Laudenbach, Dr. Bill Tillman, Joe Beechie and Fred Erb perfected their play.
The move to David Street meant an expanded facility. The membership grew and is now the largest Croquet Club in Canada.
For most of the members the social interaction is as important as the game itself. They have weekly cocktail parties hosted in people’s homes or at the BICC facility as well as regular structured and fun social activities.
BICC provides opportunities for friendship, recreational play and competition play. Every facet of this successful Club is due to our dedicated, passionate group of volunteers.
Interested individuals are welcome to come out and learn croquet! For more information contact info@bicc.ca or visit www.bicc.ca.
MEN’S BREAKFAST
The next Men’s Breakfast is scheduled for this Saturday, Jan. 4th. All men in the community are invited for a fabulous meal and camaraderie served up at the TSJ Hall.
Coffee will be served at 9 a.m. with breakfast following at about 9:30 a.m. This is a pay what you are able event. To ensure enough food is available anyone planning to attend is asked to please email John Pounder at bvi@tcc.on.ca by Jan. 2nd at noon.
The TSJ Hall is located at 10 Keith Crescent in Bayfield (formerly Trinity St James Parish Hall).
PILATES
Pilates for all levels, from beginners to experienced enthusiasts, is warmly offered at the Bayfield Community Centre and Arena on Monday evenings during January and February. These classes will be held over eight weeks on Mondays at 6:30 p.m. from Jan. 6 to Feb. 24.
The Wellness Potion’s Signature Pilates Class is a meticulously curated and well-planned Pilates workout designed to provide a comprehensive and challenging exercise routine. The class is centred around a wide range of classical and creative Pilates exercises and sequences designed to target every muscle group in the body. It aims to improve overall strength, flexibility, and balance while helping tone and sculpt.
Participants are asked to wear comfortable clothes they can sweat in and arrive at least five minutes before the class begins.
Those who wish to participate, are asked to please register online at The Wellness Potion. The exchange is $96 HST for all eight weeks. A minimum of 10 participants are required to run a class.
For more information, please call Maria at 416 587-9913 or email maria@thewellnesspotion.com.
AGRICULTURAL SOCIETY
The Board of Directors of the Bayfield Agricultural Society is looking for someone to fill the position of a Volunteer Coordinator.
Previous experience is helpful but not necessary. A working knowledge of Word and Excel would be an asset.
The duties of this position include: serving as the point of contact for all potential and returning fair volunteers; working with the fair committee chairs to identify their volunteer needs; maintaining a current active list of volunteers; ensuring that volunteers have the information they need about the roles they take on; and following up with volunteers to learn about their fair experience. Meeting attendance would be as needed.
The ideal candidate for this volunteer role is someone who is personable, organized, and a creative problem solver.
For more information, please contact info@bayfieldfair.ca
PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH
The congregation of Knox Presbyterian Church in Bayfield would like to wish everyone a very Happy New Year. Their next Sunday service will be held on Jan. 5 at 11 a.m. and all are welcome.
Members of the congregation are currently gathering items for re-use and upcycling. Upcycling takes something no longer in use and gives it a second life with new functions, for example, the outer milk bag can be upcycled into sleeping mats. These mats are distributed to people in need throughout the world. Knox Bayfield gathers clean outer milk bags that have been previously washed and dried, used stamps, empty egg cartons and eyeglasses. Items can be dropped off at the church from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Sunday and Monday (excluding holidays). People’s generous contributions are warmly accepted and will change lives.
Knox Presbyterian Church Bayfield is located at 2 Bayfield Main Street North. To learn more visit knoxbayfield.ca or follow them on YouTube – Knox, Bayfield.
BEFORE AND AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAM
The Ministry of Education recently approved the license for the Bayfield Before and After School Program (BASP) operated from the Bayfield Community Centre and Arena. The program is now ready to accommodate families during the new school year!
Parents who register their children in the program can expect nutritious snacks, bussing, registered staff and quality programming that is community driven with low ratios.
BASP will run from September to June, Monday to Friday from 7-8:30 a.m. and 3:30-6 p.m. The cost of the program is $14 for one session per day and $28 for both before and after school sessions per day.
In addition to being licensed under the Ministry of Education, the program will be monitored by Huron Perth Public Health.
Registered Early Childhood Educators and their classroom assistants will provide a challenging and supportive environment where those children in their care can feel appreciated, respected, heard and valued.
For more information please email Bayfieldbasp@gmail.com.
The Bayfield Community Centre and Arena is located at 4 Jane Street in the village.
COFFEE & CHAT
The Friends of Bayfield Library (FOBL) extend a warm welcome to all who would like to join in the “Coffee & Chat” group that is held at the Bayfield Branch Library. Participants can enjoy a hot cup of coffee while engaging in conversation with other community members. The conversation is neutral and inclusive with an endless list of interesting topics for discussion!
The “Coffee & Chat” group meets in the Bayfield Library Meeting Room every Tuesday, 2-3:30 p.m., from now until the end of June 2025.
This is a great way for newcomers to meet new people, learn about the village, and share ideas. Seasoned villagers are also very welcome. There is no need to register for this program. Just show up and be prepared for some lively discussion!
MAH JONGG
Mah Jongg is played at the Bayfield Branch Library on the first and third Wednesdays of the month.
Participants are asked to arrive at 1:30 p.m. and games will be played until 4 p.m.
All are welcome to take part in this Rummy type game that is played with tiles instead of cards. Instructions are always available.
For more information please email Pat Lewington at plewington6@gmail.com.
The Bayfield Branch Library is located at 18 Main Street North in the village.
DUCKWORTH RETIRES AFTER FOUR PLUS DECADES NURSING AT GODERICH HOSPITAL
Wilma Duckworth, RPN, was celebrated for her 45 years of service at Alexandra Marine & General Hospital. She retired on Dec. 27. (Submitted photo)
On Dec. 27, Alexandra Marine & General Hospital (AMGH) announced the retirement of Wilma Duckworth, a dedicated Registered Practical nurse (RPN) who has served the community for an incredible 45 years. Wilma’s journey with AMGH began in 1979, and her story is intricately woven into the very fabric of the hospital and community.
Wilma’s legacy at AMGH is marked by her unwavering commitment to patient care, her adaptability to the evolving healthcare environment, and her deep community ties. Her story is not just about her professional journey but also about her family’s enduring relationship with AMGH, spanning generations.
“Wilma’s journey with us is not just a professional contribution but a heartfelt connection that has touched countless lives,” said President and CEO at Huron Health System, Jimmy Trieu. “As she embarks on her well-deserved retirement, we celebrate not only her achievements but also the legacy of care she leaves behind.”
The RPN’s connection to AMGH is deeply rooted, starting from her birth just 20 minutes before her late husband Paul, with both their mothers sharing a room at the hospital. Paul’s dedication to AMGH was evident through his 27 years of service alongside Wilma. Her life, from meeting Paul, raising two wonderful children, and welcoming grandchildren – all connected to AMGH – underscores her integral role in the community. Wilma’s passion for healthcare is a legacy carried forward by her son, Dr. Mark Duckworth, who serves as a physician at both AMGH and Maitland Valley Medical Centre.
“One of my most cherished memories is helping deliver a baby on Valentine’s Day. With three women in labor, both delivery rooms were full – it was an incredible experience I’ll treasure forever,” Wilma fondly recalled. “I also hold dear the memories of the exceptional care my family and I received at the hospital; we truly experienced the best care possible. During challenging times, I was surrounded by a team that felt like family, offering support to my children and me. I’m deeply grateful to AMGH for 45 extraordinary years filled with learning, laughter, and a profound sense of community.”
As Wilma steps into retirement, she looks forward to spending time with her grandchildren, indulging in plays, reading, volunteering, and traveling. Please join in celebrating Wilma’s remarkable career and the indelible mark she leaves on AMGH.
“I extend my heartfelt gratitude to the residents of Goderich, surrounding communities, businesses, and service clubs for their generous contributions that keep our hospital equipped to care for patients. A special thanks to the former Auxiliary for their countless hours of fundraising; their volunteer efforts have been truly invaluable. Lastly, a huge thank you to the staff in all departments for their wonderful support in helping me do my job. Thank you, AMGH, for an incredible 45 years – it went by fast.”
FOOD DRIVE SUPPORTS ST. VINCENT DE PAUL
On Dec. 23, President and CEO at Huron Health System, Jimmy Trieu; Pat Clifford, president at St. Vincent de Paul; and Anne-Marie Foucault, family services at St. Vincent de Paul; proudly stood with the generous donations collected during the hospital’s festive food drive, showcasing their commitment to fighting hunger in the community. (Submitted photo)
As the temperature dropped and snow began to fall, Alexandra Marine & General Hospital (AMGH) focused on community support with a special holiday food drive to assist the Goderich St. Vincent de Paul Food Bank. Recognizing the rising costs of necessities, staff at AMGH came together to donate essential items such as paper products, canned vegetables and school snacks. This effort aimed to show solidarity with those facing difficulties during these challenging times.
“Our staff’s commitment to community well-being goes beyond healthcare,” said President and CEO at Huron Health System, Jimmy Trieu. “By supporting St. Vincent de Paul, we are helping ensure our neighbors have food during the holidays. This initiative is more than just providing meals, it’s about fostering a sense of hope and connection within our community during a time when togetherness is most needed.”
The food bank, which plays a crucial role in providing food assistance to families in the area, has seen increased demand this year. The donations from AMGH staff will aid in meeting this demand and bringing some relief to those struggling with food insecurity.
“I have been here close to 30 years, and I never thought I would see how great the need has become,” said Pat Clifford, president at St. Vincent de Paul. “The preliminary numbers show at least a 20 per cent increase from last year. Every single one of our hampers is made according to the specific needs of the person or family, considering their abilities, food allergies or sensitivities, and environment. This certainly adds to the time and expense required to make Christmas special for each family in need. It’s the wonderful support from the community, such as this AMGH food drive, that sustains our ability to continue making a difference for so many. We are truly grateful for their hard work and thoughtfulness.”
For more information on the programs and services provided by St. Vincent de Paul, call 519 524-1087.
TRIO OF EDUCATION EVENTS MARK ALZHEIMER’S AWARENESS MONTH
Dr. Alexandra Peel (Submitted photo)
During Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, Alzheimer Societies across Canada unite to challenge dementia stigma and create a community where everyone feels more comfortable talking about dementia and sharing their own experience. Alzheimer Society Huron Perth is featuring three special education events in the community.
“Talk with the Doc! Planning Ahead for Medical Decisions” with Dr. Alexandrea Peel will take place on ZOOM on Wednesday, Jan. 22 from 1:30-3:00 p.m. Dr. Peel, a local geriatrician well-versed in dementia care, will identify and discuss how to prepare for the complex decisions that people and families living with dementia and frailty may face. Talk with the Doc, an annual January event, also includes a lively Q&A session with Dr. Peel after the presentation. Free self-registration at Doc-Talk 2025.
The Dementia Basics Series are free one-hour sessions designed to answer the most frequently asked questions. These sessions, scheduled for 7 p.m. on Mondays and 1:30 p.m. on Tuesdays, are equally valuable for families and healthcare professionals. Self-register at Education Hour
- Jan. 20/21: 10 Warning Signs – Should I be Worried?
- Jan. 27/28: Types of Dementia
- Feb. 3/4: Brain Changes – 8 A’s of Dementia
- Feb. 10/11: Communication Tips
The Virtual Memory and Aging Program is the online version of the popular four-week Memory & Aging Course which reviews age-related memory changes, how to optimize brain health, and helpful memory strategies. The program takes place on ZOOM on Thursdays, starting on Jan. 23 and concluding on Feb. 13, from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. There is a $25 workbook fee with financial assistance available. Self-register at Memory and Aging Program.
Alzheimer’s Huron Perth’s free Awareness Month Movie event returns to the Huron County Museum in Goderich on Feb. 6 and Feb. 13 at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. The Canadian Film Board’s “Dear Audrey”, is a heartfelt blend of documentary and love story captured by activist photographer, Martin Duckworth, as he cares for his wife Audrey. The uplifting movie, “Headful of Honey”, stars Nick Nolte and his granddaughter Sophia Lane Nolte. The film is the story of a granddaughter who takes her grandfather on a train trip to Venice, in hopes of reconnecting with old memories. Dear Audrey will be showing at 2 p.m. on Feb. 6 and 7 p.m. on Feb. 13. Headful of Honey will be showing at 7 p.m. on Feb. 6 and 2 p.m. on Feb. 13. Stay tuned for more details.
To find out more about these and other upcoming programs, click on the Education Hour banner on the Alzheimer’s Huron Perth website at www.alzheimer.ca/huronperth. People can also contact their offices at 1-800-561-5012 or email info@alzhp.ca.
Editor’s note: In recognition of Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, we share the following article written from the point of view of an area resident who is living with Dementia which includes her road to a diagnosis and helpful tips on how to support and lift up both the person on the journey as well as their caregivers.
Hello, My Name is Ruthie.
It’s an honor to be asked to share my journey with you. Please keep an open mind as this is my story, but it might not be the same as someone else’s walk with Alzheimer’s.
Allow me to give you a brief background. I am 77 years old and was born and raised in St. Thomas, ON. We now live in Exeter, ON. My husband (Alan) and I have been married for 56 years. We have two adult daughters, one granddaughter, three step grandsons, and four step great-grandchildren. I am a retired Registered Practical Nurse. I’ve had a fulfilling career in various aspects of Nursing.
I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in February 2023. I’ve often been asked how I knew that something was different than the “normal” forgetfulness that sometimes happens as we age.
A few examples of the difference for me are as follows:
- Not recognizing what Red and Blue stood for on the taps, therefore not knowing which one was hot and which one was cold.
- Not being able to get my hearing aids in the correct ear, because I didn’t recognize the colors indicating which one was left and which one was right.
- Getting in the car to drive and not remembering how to start it.
- Proof reading something I had written and realizing that I had put wrong words in sentences; therefore, it made no sense at all. Also, when I was talking to someone, I sometimes said something that also didn’t make any sense.
- Finding things in strange places or not finding them at all.
- Not remembering how to start the washing machine or sometimes running the washer or dryer without adding the clothes.
- Turning wrong burners on the stove due to not recognizing the symbols.
- Not remembering if I completed some of my routine hygiene practices therefore repeating them once or twice or maybe not doing it at all.
At this point I didn’t get alarmed. I just thought I wasn’t concentrating hard enough. Then something changed. I was driving home to Exeter from a routine appointment in London, when I suddenly didn’t know where I was or how I got there. I knew where I was supposed to be but didn’t know how to get there. I pulled into a parking lot and waited until my mind cleared. I’m not sure how long it took, but eventually my mind cleared enough, and I drove home as if nothing happened.
A week or so later, I had a similar incident, but thankfully I wasn’t driving this time. When we arrived at our friend’s house, I was reluctant to get out of the car, because I didn’t recognize her house or its surroundings. When my husband convinced me to go in, I didn’t recognize anything about the house. Again, after some time, my mind cleared, and I continued our visit as if nothing had happened. Periodically, I continue to have more of these types of events.
Once my husband found out that this wasn’t the first incident, he insisted that we make an appointment to see our family doctor. After a memory test and a CAT Scan, the doctor diagnosed me and strongly advised me to give up driving.
At first, I was in a state of “shock”. Even though I knew that something was “off”, it wasn’t the diagnosis that I was expecting. Once the shock passed, I went into a bit of a “Pity Party”. I soon realized that “negative” (or what I call “stinking thinking”) was not a path that I wanted to stay on.
Both my husband and I are Christians, so I began to pray that God would use me through this illness. When I was first asked to share my testimony at a church function, fear and panic set in. “Why would they ask me to do that?” I thought. How could someone with dementia be able to remember well enough to speak in front of others? Then I heard a small voice say, “Why not you?” That first speaking engagement is what has led me to share my story here.
I had heard of the Alzheimer Society but didn’t know much about it. When I was first diagnosed, a family member suggested that I get in touch with the Society. I was reluctant at first because I didn’t think I was ready for that yet. I presumed that you had to wait until you were much more advanced. Later, one evening I decided to Google info about the Society. There was a wealth of information available regarding programs and to my surprise, I found that the early stage is the best time to get involved. The next day, I made the phone call. It was the best decision that I could have made.
Because of the monthly phone calls that I receive, the “First Steps” program, “Minds in Motion”, and the support group for caregivers, my husband and I are much better equipped to walk this journey.
Through my own experience this far with this disease, I have written a few suggestions that are helpful for me:
- No pop quizzes. Don’t ask me if I know who you are. Just assume that I don’t. Please introduce yourself when you are speaking to me. Some days I might know who you are and some days I might not. You won’t offend me.
- If I can’t finish a sentence, please don’t try to finish it for me as it might not be what I’m trying to express, and it would be frustrating for me. Just move the conversation on. Keep conversations short and simple.
- I love having visitors. Just call and arrange a time that’s suitable for both of us. Keep your visits to 30-60 minutes. Long visits leave me frustrated and mentally exhausted. Please keep your conversations positive. Lift me up. Encouraging words are much better than critical words.
- If I’m walking without my walker, I tend to slam my feet down. It’s because my perception is diminishing, so I can’t tell how close my foot is to the floor. I use my walker wherever possible now because my balance has been affected, and it helps to prevent a fall. If you see me trying to walk without my walker, gently remind me as I’ve probably just forgotten it.
- If I don’t respond to you right away, don’t assume that I can’t hear you and start shouting. It’s likely that at that moment, I might not know how to respond.
- Please have patience with me if I ask you something that you just told me.
- Try not to talk, “Baby Talk” to me. Remember that I’m not a child. I’m just someone living with Dementia.
- Please don’t ignore me because you don’t know what to say. All I need is a friendly smile, a kind word or maybe just a hug.
- Try not to correct me. I probably know what I want to say, but the information just isn’t available to me at that moment.
- Try not to approach me from behind, because my peripheral vision is not as good as it used to be. Stand in front of me so that I can see you clearly. Otherwise, you will likely frighten me, and I might react negatively.
- I do seem to wear my emotions on my sleeve. So, if I get teary, it doesn’t necessarily mean that I am depressed. Crying does not define me. It’s just an emotion. I may also have moments of frustration. Please don’t take it personally.
- Lastly and most importantly, don’t put all your focus on the person with this disease. Remember the caregiver. They need all the support they can get, but likely won’t ask.
There is no point in denying that our lives have changed. I’d be lying if I said that everything is “rosy” and we have it all together, because we do not. Because of our faith, family, friends and the Alzheimer Society, I am living well with Dementia.
Alzheimer’s is what I have, but not who I am. I’m just “Ruthie”.
FOLK-INFLUENCED CONCERT TO RAISE FUNDS FOR HURON HOSPICE
Jack Clarke (left) and Deb Shelley will be performing an acoustic, folk-influenced concert in Bayfield on Jan. 12 (Submitted photo)
Evoke, a singer-songwriter duo featuring Jack Clarke and Deb Shelley, is delighted to be coming to Bayfield on Sunday, Jan. 12. Their afternoon concert of acoustic, folk-influenced music and song has taken as the “Well-Seasoned” inviting listeners on a musical journey through a year of life and beyond.
All proceeds of this event will be in support of Huron Hospice. The Province of Ontario covers about half of a hospice’s operating expenses, while all hospice care and grief services are provided at no charge to residents and their families.
Both Clarke and Shelley have a background steeped in music-making, and have performed together in different capacities.
Clarke is a trained and gifted guitarist and composer, creating and arranging songs from a spectrum of musical styles. He is equally at home crafting blues, folk, light jazz, and classical sounding music on his guitar or ukulele, with occasional harmonica woven in. His soothing, gentle voice provides an easy welcome to the listener.
Over the years, Shelley has focused on developing and directing community vocal groups, such as “Solace”, “Driftwood Harmony”, and “Full Circle Singers”. In 2022, she completed her M.A. in Community Music at Wilfrid Laurier University, and was instrumental in leading Huron Hospice in their quest to become Music Care Certified earlier this year. When asked, Shelley claims that her instrument of choice is a “Pilot” gel pen; she appreciates the power, musicality, and poetry of language. Beyond that, she loves to sing, most often choosing a harmony part.
A few years ago, Clarke sent Shelley the recording of a song he’d created that was in need of lyrics. They’ve been co-creating songs ever since. Their ever-expanding repertoire is rich with reflective songs that by turns will have the listener tapping their foot, closing their eyes in thought, or humming along.
Cliff and Penny, recent attendees at an Evoke concert, extended their thanks for the “soothing song, beautiful harmony and gentle lyrics,” adding that “the performance was extremely well received.” Another attendee, Doug, declared “Jack and Deb are pure joy. Evoke creates a journey and brings the listener along for the ride, with lyrics and music harmonized into a feeling of bliss.”
All are welcome to attend Evoke’s “Well-Seasoned” concert on January 12 at 2 p.m., at St. Andrews United Church, Bayfield, which is wheelchair accessible. Admission is by donation; tax receipts from Huron Hospice will be issued for donations of $20 or more.
An anonymous donor has offered to match all funds collected to a maximum of $5,000, so individual donations will have double the impact!
To add a touch of extra flavor, a delectable basket of seasonings from The Gravy Boat in Bayfield will be offered as a door prize at the event.
Please note that if winter weather is prohibitive on Jan. 12, the concert will be rescheduled to Sunday, Jan. 19, at the same time and location. Updates will be provided on the Huron Hospice website and on social media.
For further information, please visit www.huronhospice.ca/events
LIVERY FILM FEST
Save the date, Thursday, Jan. 9, for the next film presented by the Livery Film Fest.
LEE is the biopic film about Lee Miller, a former New York City fashion model turned war correspondent whose photographs became one of the most significant contributions to WWII archives.
Kate Winslet’s passion project, which she co-produced and partly funded, focuses mainly on the period of Miller’s life covering the war.
In 1941, Miller, alongside photojournalist David Scherman, entered Nazi Germany, traveled along the frontlines, documenting horrific scenes of war and atrocities. Miller had a profound understanding and empathy for women and the voiceless victims of war. Her images display both the fragility and ferocity of the human experience.
Above all, the film shows how Miller lived her life in pursuit of truth, for which she paid a significant personal price.
Presented in partnership with TIFF Film Circuit. LEE will be shown at the Park Theatre in Goderich. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. for a 7 p.m. showtime.
HPHA
The Huron Perth Healthcare Alliance (HPHA) is pleased to confirm that Clinton Public Hospital will be extending its Emergency Department (ED) hours in the New Year. Starting Jan. 20, 2025, the ED will operate from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m., an increase from the current hours of 8 a.m. to 6 p.m.
“As part of a regional system of emergency care, our Clinton Public Hospital Emergency Department Team continues to provide outstanding care to those served and the HPHA remains committed to ensuring responsible access to safe and timely care,” said President and CEO, Andrew Williams.
For emergencies or serious medical issues, community members are advised to call 911.
HPHA is dedicated to ensuring safe, high-quality, responsibly accessible care for all patients and remains grateful for the community’s ongoing support. For further updates and information about their services, please visit www.hpha.ca.
GOOD NEIGHBOURS OF BLUEWATER
Every Thursday morning Good Neighbors of Bluewater (GNOB) has the coffee on and warm muffins are served fresh out of the oven. Starting at 10 a.m. folks are invited to drop in and join in a conservation with friends. The “Meet Your Community Neighbour “ segment is held on the second Thursday of each month. This is a casual time of conversation including a question and answer time.
Meet Your Community Neighbour will continue in the New Year, the special guests scheduled for casual conversion and/or a meet and greet are:
- Jan. 9 – Judith Parker and Marion Cornish, Fidget Apron Creators from Exeter
- Jan. 23 – Bluewater and Area Family Health Team Social Workers, Ashley Blake and Bethany Keep
- Feb. 13, Municipality of Bluewater Councilor, Winona Bailey Sangster
GNOB have a couple of Tuesday evening events in the works as well, both set for 7 p.m.:
- Jan. 21 – Financial Education Evening with Jim Lynn Retired Financial Consultant
- March 25 – Author Jody Durand reading from his book “Country Boy Soul: Pasture to Prosperity”
Programs being offered in the New Year include an Intergenerational Knitting and Crocheting Club, for ages nine to 90 plus, to be held on Wednesday afternoons starting Jan. 8. Sessions will run from 3:30-5 p.m. Both beginning and accomplished knitters and crocheters welcome. The cost will be $5 per session and includes a snack. Please register to take part at gnob@hay.net.
GNOB is currently closed but will reopen on Monday, Jan. 6. Merry Christmas to all!
WINGS OF A DOVE
Huron Hospice has launched its annual “Wings of a Dove” fundraiser – the letters are now in the mail. This year, the campaign will raise money to fund the Loss, Grief and Bereavement service at Huron Hospice.
Christopher Walker, manager of Fund Development said that “due to the labour disruption at Canada Post, the campaign was delayed. Although it was delayed, the need is real.”
People can make year-end gifts to Huron Hospice by making a gift online, by E-transfer, or over the phone. If people want to donate by cheque, it can be dropped off at Bender House or mailed to Huron Hospice, 98 Shipley Street, Clinton, ON, N0M 1L0. People can log in or call www.huronhospice.ca or Christopher Walker at 519-525-7352. E-transfers can be made to donations@huronhospice.ca.
It is important to remember that the fundraiser helps pay for the Loss, Grief and Bereavement Support Program at Huron Hospice. The program helps children, youth and adults learn how to manage their grief. Because of the fundraiser, Huron Hospice offers the Program at no cost to the participants. The last thing a family should have to think about at a challenging time is the cost of services. It’s all about making sure that compassionate care is available across Huron County.
According to Huron Hospice Executive Director, Willy Van Klooster, “Loss comes in many forms, the death of someone special, a marital breakdown or the loss of a job. At some point in our lives, we will all experience a loss. When we do, we will grieve. For some people grief becomes a challenge that is hard to manage. This kind of grief can affect daily life and when this happens, it is okay to say, ‘I need help’.”
When people give to Wings of a Dove, Compass Minerals, Merner Contracting, the Lions Club of Brussels and an anonymous donor will match all gifts up to $20,000.
Walker commented that, “Compass Minerals, Merner Contracting, the Brussels Lions Club and our anonymous donor have been wonderful supporters of Huron Hospice for several years. The match means a gift of $100 becomes $200 and $250 grows to $500.”
Walker also said, “Giving feels good, and it feels even better when you know you are supporting such an important cause.”
It is important to remember if anyone feels like they are having a difficult time managing their grief, they should not hesitate to call Huron Hospice. They are available to help. Please call Sally Brodie at 519 525-6331.
CONSERVATION DINNER
The 35th Conservation Dinner takes place on Thursday, Apr. 3, 2025. This gala dinner and charitable auction has raised more than $1.39 million, for projects in local communities, over its history dating back almost three and a half decades.
The Conservation Dinner Committee Chair for 2025 is Chris Keller of the Exeter Lions Club. He encourages people to “save the date” and mark the date on their calendars. People may even consider purchasing tickets as gifts during the Christmas season.
The Conservation Dinner is a partnership of Ausable Bayfield Conservation Foundation (ABCF) and Exeter Lions Club and the entire community. The Chair describes the event as a great evening of fun, fellowship and community betterment.
People can find out more at conservationdinner.com.
The Exeter Lions Club has been co-partner, with ABCF and the watershed community, on the Dinner, since 1991. Net profits are split 50-50 between community conservation projects of ABCF and community conservation projects of the Exeter Lions Club.
The Conservation Dinner supports projects that include accessible nature trails in Bayfield, Clinton, Parkhill, Lucan, Arkona, Exeter, and Varna; makes it possible for more students to experience outdoor nature education; a $1,000 student environmental bursary benefiting students in local communities; a summer job at Ausable Bayfield Conservation Authority for a student beginning their post-secondary education in an environment-related field; turtle monitoring and events in Port Franks and Ailsa Craig; aquatic habitat studies in Old Ausable Channel, Grand Bend; and projects like nature day camps, fishing derby and Owl Prowl, and parks and conservation areas.
The annual charitable event features live and silent auctions of art and other distinctive items including travel packages and sports and entertainment memorabilia. The Dinner also includes special raffles, general raffles, appetizers, fun and fellowship, and a wonderful meal.
The Conservation Dinner will take place at South Huron Recreation Centre located at 94 Victoria Street East in Exeter. Tickets are $100 each and patrons receive a charitable gift receipt, for income tax purposes, for a portion of that amount.
To buy tickets to the Conservation Dinner, or to donate, phone 519 235-2610 or toll-free 1-888-286-2610 or email info@abca.ca or visit the Ausable Bayfield Conservation office east of Exeter at 71108 Morrison Line (just south of Hwy 83).
Remember This
The Huron County Museum is home to thousands of artifacts that illustrate the history of both the rural and urban populations of the area. Space dictates what wonderful curiosities the public regularly gets to see when they visit the museum located at 110 North Street in Goderich. But where there is wifi, there is an opportunity to time-travel with over 6,700 pieces of the museum’s collection now available to view online at huroncountymuseum.pastperfectonline.com.
“Remember This” highlights items from the collection of the Huron County Museum and Historic Gaol. Items that have shaped the fabric of the county and the people who have lived here since before the county became the county in 1835 up until more recent times.
It’s New Year’s Day and many folks have likely raised a glass of cheer to usher in 2025 but just a few short decades ago, enjoying a libation wasn’t always so easy as evidenced by this week’s featured artifact…
COILS FROM AN ILLEGAL STILL
This is a series of coils used for the cooling of vapor to a liquid, in this case for the distilling of alcoholic liquors called “Moonshine”. The coils are embedded between two cedar stumps. They were found on Lot 20, Concession 1, of West Wawanosh Township in 1980 on the farm of Tom Hamilton.
The coils were discovered in January 1980 by John Hindmarsh and Donald Hamilton while cutting fence posts on Donald’s grandfather’s farm.
A letter accompanying the still provided some history:
This is a relic of the Canada Temperance Act days just after World War I, when the sweet smell of sour mash hung over the Saratoga Swamp as local residents operated numerous illegal stills. It seems the revenuers (police) were hot on the trail of a still on the Tom Hamilton farm in West Wawanosh. Alerted that police were coming to raid his still, the coils were hastily plucked from the cooling trough. The owner had a fast horse, but his buggy was being overtaken, so he threw the coils into a clump of cedars just before his horse dropped dead. It was in that cedar clump that the coils stayed for 60 years becoming nearly completely encased in the cedars that would grow to be used for posts and poles.
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Coils from an illegal still.
THE BEST OF THE BAYFIELD BREEZE 2024
A RETROSPECTIVE OF VILLAGE HAPPENINGS FROM JAN. 3RD TO APR. 20
STORY BY MELODY FALCONER-POUNDER
Today is Jan. 1st, 2025. The perfect time to begin our look back on the old year as it was represented in the past 52 issues of the Bayfield Breeze.
Once again there was a recurring theme of how the village can best honor, maintain and connect with the village’s heritage while keeping pace with the outside world. Like-minded community members achieved this in many ways this year with the adoption of a newly updated Heritage Conservation District Plan being the primary indicator. Other ways the community embraced their heritage included the installation of banners along Main Street during November to honor local people who have served this nation in both times of war and times of peace; as well as the completion of a safe walkway from the village to the Bayfield River Flats under the Bayfield Bridge. These are but three examples of how the residents of Bayfield continue to value their past while embracing the future.
This week we revisit the period of 2024 from Jan. 3rd to Apr. 20. As we look back on this time period we would like to take this opportunity to extend a heartfelt thank you to those people who contribute both stories and photos from events that happen in the community. It just isn’t possible for us to attend everything so your talents are very much appreciated by not only our committee but our readers also.
Sending wishes for a healthy, happy New Year with plenty of time to remember the past as well as look forward to the future.
From the Bayfield Breeze committee – Dennis, Mike, John and myself!
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SUBMISSIONS
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Melody Falconer-Pounder
Happy New Year to our faithful readers! This week, I have the pleasure of turning over “my bit at the bottom” to a fellow journalist who has since mid-summer become a regular contributor to this publication and therefore deserves the opportunity to officially introduce herself to the community. I look forward to sharing even more stories written by Samantha with you all in 2025. – Melody
Samantha Lawson (Submitted photos)
Readers may have noticed an unfamiliar byline in the Bayfield Breeze in recent months: Samantha Lawson. Some may know me, others may not, but I’d like to become a more familiar character in Bayfield. I want readers to feel that they can come to me with story ideas, and trust I will tell that story right. Let me introduce myself.
I reached out to Melody in August asking if I could join the Bayfield Breeze team. I moved to Bayfield at the beginning of the summer after living in Hamilton for a little over four years. But I’m a Huron County native. I grew up in the country outside Seaforth, and even worked in Bayfield at the Black Dog during high school before going away for college.
I moved to Hamilton in January 2019 to attend Mohawk College’s three-year Journalism Program. I learned about print, radio, and TV reporting, and I absolutely loved it. There was something very satisfying about the hands-on style of the program and it prepared me very well for the real working world. I was also a member of the varsity cross-country running team for a year. That was a real privilege but it was hard work as well. We ran most afternoons after class, doing hills or timed workouts, with some easy runs mixed in between. I made great friends with my team members and greatly improved my running technique with the assistance of the coach.
Samantha Lawson was a member of the varsity running team at Mohawk College.
After graduation, I landed a position with InSauga.com that summer, and then started working for CHCH News that fall. And that was definitely one of the most rewarding places I’ve worked. Seeing the behind the scenes of a real TV newscast was very interesting. I mainly wrote articles for their website and sometimes even wrote story scripts for the anchor to read on air. It brought me great satisfaction to hear my words being read out on live TV.
But that environment had its downfalls as well. We were the first to hear about car accidents or shootings, and it really dampened my spirit. It takes a toll on you to continuously deliver such sad news to your readers.
So, this summer I decided to move home to start fresh. I broke my lease at my apartment, quit my job, and packed up my belongings.
It’s been a turbulent journey, with lots of highs and lows. But, if I were offered the opportunity to go back and do it again, I don’t think I would change a thing. Working at CHCH taught me so many valuable skills that I can apply in the future in my career. And I think I needed to have the experience of living in a city to decide that a slower environment might be where I thrive the most.
I love living in Bayfield. It’s the first time I have really felt a part of a community. Growing up in the country, we had neighbors, but lacked that close-knit community feeling. I work at Renegades Diner as well as writing for the Bayfield Breeze, and I like getting to know all the characters in the village.
And I’m still running as well. Not as intensely or with as much competitive nature as I once did in college, but I still love the feeling. I’ve always enjoyed how it gets me outside. When the fall starts to roll around, it just smells like cross-country season for me. It’s an independent sport, but it can also foster its own sense of community once you find the right people to run alongside.
So please, if you see me around town, run into me at the diner, or see me running around the village, do say hi, as I would be happy to meet new faces and get to know the people of Bayfield even more.
– Samantha
Ideas and contributions to the Bayfield Breeze are always welcome.
Deadlines for submissions are Sundays at 4 p.m.